Saturday, April 02, 2011

Facebook Line & Sinker

I actually had a Facebook account for about three minutes today. No, that's not another April Fool's Day joke; I'm serious. And I know what you're thinking: Why would PBW do that when she doesn't use Facebook, never joins things and refuses to do any online self-promo outside her own blog?

Because, my friends and colleagues, occasionally even PBW is a gullible idiot. That's why.

The backstory: I don't like television, but now and then I watch The Weather Channel to get the forecast and check out the Doppler radar. The local forecast comes on every eight minutes, and it helps me decide when to take the dogs for a walk. Last night when I was checking to see what today's forecast was going to be, they ran a commercial for a photo contest promoting their new From the Edge show.

One of the prizes was a book of photographs by Peter Lik, which I thought was pretty cool. I love free books, and since I've gotten into amateur photography I'm always interesting in reading books about it and seeing what the pros do. I seriously doubted I'd win, but what the heck, I could try.

Although there were few details about what sort of photo you were supposed to enter in the contest, I figured I'd see if the rules would allow me to enter the shot I used to make my new blog banner, the one I took last November:

Sure, it's not perfect, but the colors and the composition are nice, and as amateur shots go I think it's pretty decent. So as the commercial directed me, I went to the Weather Channel's site, and hunted for the link to the contest, which was a real pain to find. Finally I located it and clicked on it.

It sent me to the show's Facebook page.

So it was a Facebook contest. Again. Great. I don't have anything against Facebook; I'm simply not interested in it. But I thought, okay, just this once I'll set up account solely for the purpose of entering the contest. And I could delete everything as soon as I lost the contest. Easy, right?

I know better. I really do. But I wanted a chance to win that book more than I wanted to listen to my common sense.

The second -- the absolute split second -- I created a Facebook account I got slammed. Two people instantly wanted to be my Friends (they must hook up something that reads the e-mail address you use to create the account that other people are watching for; both people send me endless amounts of SPAM on my regular e-mail.) Facebook demanded all kinds of personal information from me, too: what school had I gone to, who were my friends, who did I want to invite to be my friends, yada yada yada.

I skipped all that and went to make my profile private. No such luck. I could, however, put up a picture of myself. Tell everyone all about me on my permanently public profile. Stuff started popping up on the sidebar for me to buy, join, check out, etc. And the questions, God. Have you done this? Why not? You'd better do this. And this. My security was too low, fix that.

In two minutes so much crap was thrown at me I almost gave up. But I really wanted to enter the contest, so I skipped as much as I could, put phony info in the stuff I couldn't, and finally verified it all. At last. I could go to the contest page and get this over with one and for all.

Here's the real irony: on the contest page? The link to enter the contest didn't work. So I joined Facebook and went through all that nonsense for nothing.

Anyway. I took great pleasure in going to the account settings page so I could delete the stupid account. Only I discovered that I couldn't delete it; I was only given the option of "deactivating" the account. And before I could do that, I had to tell them why I was deactivating it. I had to explain myself by checking off one of their reason boxes (none of which said "You're pushy, intrusive dumbasses and I don't want you anywhere near me or my e-mail".)

I checked one of the idiot boxes (the "I don't think Facebook is useful" one, which has to be the understatement of the millenium) and finally, I thought, it was done. Over. I escaped Facebook! Only then Facebook assured me that I could come back and reactivate and use my account any time.

Well, at least I had enough sense to use a fake name.


  1. You've just confirmed every concern I've had about Facebook. I'll be staying FAR away from that mess! Thanks for the warning.

  2. I was curious so I googled delete facebook account and came across several links. This one might be useful.
    The whole process is a major pain. Ridiculously complicated.

  3. I joined facebook a few months ago. I've been on it exactly three times, two of which I was trying to find a high school friend and the last was to try to quit. I still get emails every week or so from people I've never met who want to be my "friend" to get points for some ...ville game. ARGH.

    It's difficult now to sign up for an email account without having to sign over all kinds of info. It drives me nuts. Where do you live? What schools did you go to? Who are you related to? Do you have pets? Kids? A credit card?

    Way too intrusive for me. I still prefer cell phones that are dumb and can't link every single site/email/update instantly to me.

  4. Keita Haruka4:55 AM

    *facepaw* Urf...:p Now I remember why I don't go to facebook anymore. :p

  5. Understandable, photography books cost a small fortune. I think if you set up a page instead of an individual account you're spared a lot of agony, but FB really is an annoying time consumer.

  6. The key for creating your fake FB account is to create a email address that you use exclusively for FB. When you are sick of FB, delete the email address. No email address, no FB account. Tada!!!! :D

  7. I have a facebook account. I signed up for it long ago. I don't know why. I don't get much in the way of spam and such and I think in the couple years I've had it, I might have visited it 10 or 12 times. That's it.

    It's a time suck if nothing else. They're all time sucks, all those social networking things. I have twitter, but hardly am on it. Facebook? Um...almost never. IM programs? Nope. linkedin (or however it's spelled) nope. Ning? I do belong to two author related rings and a quilters ring, but they get little traffic and even less from me.

    I have my email, my website and my cell phone. That's enough, thank you very much.

  8. If it's any consolation, your photograph is beautiful. ;)

    Thanks for the humorous (gotta laugh or you'll cry) post.

  9. I deactivated mine after having it for 2 years. I rarely went on and quite frankly didn't like the whole set-up.

    You have to wonder about a site, that makes it near impossible to delete your account. (Hugs)Indigo

  10. Ironic when things that are supposed to be fun arent. And things that are supposed to save us time waste our time. That is a gorgeous photo, though.

  11. Anonymous9:38 PM

    Well, I'll chime in to say I _do_ have a Facebook account and I like it. But I also have email notifications turned off. ;)

  12. FB is annoying. I keep my page up because it's useful and easy enough to update thru twitter, which I do like... (hey, i like to talk) but if I had to log into it anymore?


  13. and that reminds my why I dont have a fb page and am not interested. didnt even have my space before that got pushed to the side as old news. I just got a twitter account and dont have a remote clue what to tweet about :S


  14. Jennifer11:23 PM

    Facebook is social blackmail these days.